Tips To Make Women Say Yes! To You EVERY TIME

I’ve talked to hundreds of women about the qualities they find most attractive in men, and a sense of humor is usually the first quality they mention.

But are women being phony when they say this?

Are they giving this answer because they don’t want to appear shallow-when what they really want is a tall, muscular hunk with a ton of cash?

If the ability to make a woman laugh was such a huge turn-on, then wouldn’t stand-up comedians get laid more than rock stars?

We all know guys with a “class clown” personality who are constantly saying hilarious things, and they’re usually the LAST guys to hook up. Women find them amusing, but don’t feel any sexual attraction.

Here’s the truth.

When women say they love a sense of humor, what they really mean is they love the deeper ATTITUDE that a sense of humor points to.

Guys who are funny, playful and nonchalant around women – and even better, can bust on women and tease them a little – are obviously confident and in control of their reality.
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As part of my research for a guide to style, I put together a focus group of 6 randomly chosen hot, single women between 21 and 33, to find out what styles in men they considered hot.

My goal was to find the things that they all agreed on.

The results were surprising, because the issues the women had the strongest opinions about were ones that most guys would never think of.

1. YOUR TEETH. Bad teeth are “just gross” said one blonde bombshell, to the enthusiastic agreement of the others.

So in order to not have your teeth immediately disqualify you, keep them brushed twice a day, flossing at least once. And if they’re rotten or badly stained, see your dentist ASAP.

However, don’t go crazy with the teeth whitener. “No one wants to kiss Chiclet Mouth,” added the blonde.
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I’ve been getting LOADS of emails from guys wondering how they’re able to get passed all their fears, insecurities, doubts and ‘just do it’… walk up to a woman they’d like to know and just talk to her.

Well, the problem lies in the fact that most guys are AFRAID.

They’re scared that the woman might say “no”, walk off and everyone would just stand there and laugh at your face.

But if you’ve been approaching ENOUGH women (I’m talking about absolute strangers) off the bat, you’ll realize most of the time, NONE of what you’ve imagine will happen.

The truth of the matter is, I’ve rarely come across women who got upset or did anything rude as I’m talking to them for the first time.

Women are generally VERY friendly and talkative.

Trust me, just as long as you don’t give off any ‘creepy’ vibes, you’ll do just fine.
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Opening Lines To Use When Approaching Asian Women

When starting conversations with girls, think in terms of Opener + Transition. This is the key to engaging women in good conversations. The two don’t need to be related at all. For example, I can Open a girl by asking her a question about her cell phone — but as soon as she answers, I can Transition onto another topic that is going to get her to share information about herself. (I don’t want to stand there for ten minutes making small-talk about her phone; I want to get to know her!)

You should never need to rely on cliche or obvious openers like “Do you have the time?” or “Hi, how are you?”

Model Queenie Also, never ask women permission to talk to them. Don’t say things like, “Excuse me, do you mind if I ask you something?” Or, “Pardon me, can I talk to you for a minute?”

This will only cause a woman to go into ‘defensive’ mode; her brain will come up with reasons not to engage in an interaction with you. It’s a built-in defense mechanism.

You’re some random guy and your intentions are unclear. She’s thinking, if she does allow you to talk to her, what’s going to happen next? Are you going to hit on her? Are you going to try to trap her in some boring conversation that she’ll need to escape from? Are you going to try to sell her something? What’s the deal here?

The point is, you never want to give her the opportunity to ‘disqualify’ you and blow you off. Jump right in with an effective Opener and follow with an effective Transition, and you’ll both be smiling and talking to each other without ever giving her ‘defense mechanisms’ a chance to kick in.

Just use common sense with these Openers. Obviously, a Japanese woman briskly walking down a crowded street in Tokyo is not going to want to stop and give you language lessons. And, keep in mind that Asian women in public places are self-conscious about other people watching them.

You should try to approach them in isolated areas where there aren’t a lot of other people around. For example, if you’re at an Asian supermarket or at a bookstore, approach the girl when she is browsing by herself. Don’t try to approach when she’s in the check-out line.

A NOTE ON BODY LANGUAGE: Your body language is as important as what you say. Show ‘open’ body language: stand tall, keep your chin up, and look relaxed. Get your hands out of your pockets! If you look awkward and uncomfortable, you’ll make her feel the same way.

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The Most Effective Way To Pick Up A Woman

Here’s the mindset you should have if you really want to be successful when it comes to dating and meeting women:

Firstly, take all the things that your mom & dad ever taught you about how to treat and date a woman and do the exact OPPOSITE!

It’s not a secret anymore that even though a woman constantly says that all she wants is a nice, sweet, and caring guy in their life, often times they’re actually lying to themselves — without them even realizing it!

It’s true!

Seriously.

In the movies, yes, the girl always falls for the nice guy, but in real life, especially more so if you really want to be able be with as many women as possible in your lifetime – the nice guy route will get you nowhere and you’ll end up getting nothing but rejections.

I’m not going to go into the details on the ‘why’ part of it because most of you might have already know about it.
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Unfortunately, what you do with your hands can be one of the quickest non-verbal ways to destroy the attraction that a woman feels for you, because the wrong hand movements can communicate that you are a low-status, beta male.

To make matters worse, your hands can be particularly tough to manage because, let’s face it, when you feel nervous, the hardest thing in the world is figuring out what to do with your hands!

For success with your dating and seduction of women, make sure you don’t make the following body language mistakes with your hands.

MISTAKE ONE. Displaying your anxiety with your hands.

You do this when you:

1) Shred napkins.
2) Make your hands into fists.
3) Sit on your hands.
4) Hold something and play with it.
5) Twiddle your fingers or thumbs.
6) Hold your hands unnaturally still.
7) Sit on your hands to avoid having the woman see them tremble.

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Body Language – How to Become an Alpha Male

An estimated 67% to 93% of human communication (according to university researchers) is non-verbal, and your body language reveals your internal emotional state. Whether someone’s parents just died, or whether they just got promoted to CEO… you can tell by observing their body language.

So, as a man who tries to pick up and seduce women, you should be mindful of what you’re communicating non-verbally.

Body language consists of the following:

  • Your movements. They should be nonchalant, as if you’re so fabulously successful that there’s rarely a reason for you to rush nor try to impress anybody. Move through the world doing what you want and assuming that others will follow.
  • The displacement of your body. Your arms and legs should be spread out. Don’t be afraid to take up space.
  • Your voice. It should have a calm, soothing, and commanding effect. Don’t speak too fast or strain your voice.
  • Your face. Keep your facial muscles relaxed. Never tense your jaw, and only rarely should you frown or wrinkle your brow.
  • Your shoulders. Keep them relaxed like they’d be if you just got a massage. Don’t raise them up like a nervous person.

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