One Night Stand “Secrets”

Some guys think it’s OK to talk about sex with girls they’ve just met. They steer the conversation towards sex, or make sexual comments in an attempt to be funny and “spice up” the conversation.

Other guys think that talking about sex implies they have a lot of experience in the bedroom, and that women will find this alluring.

Women are generally not interested or impressed by this type of talk.

More likely, they’ll think it’s crude and juvenile. (Besides, guys who hook up on a regular basis don’t need to talk about it.)

But you can get her mind on sensual, erotic thoughts.

The key is to do it in a clever, “invisible” way.
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Standing at the magazine rack thumbing through Cosmo, she has the most gorgeous face you’ve ever seen. Her hair is silky brown. Her skin looks so radiant and so incredibly soft. You would be on top of the world if you could pick her this girl up.

You feel the fear deep in your gut.

You know that even if you got your balls in gear and went for it, you wouldn’t know what to say. You feel so nervous and fumbly that you would reject yourself if you were her. So you shy away from even approaching her in the first place.

Does this situation sound familiar? If so, keep reading.

The first thing for you to realize is that all guys get anxiety about approaching women. I know I certainly do.

But what separates you (and me) from the rest of the guys is…

What You Do About Your Fear.
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Tips To Make Women Say Yes! To You EVERY TIME

I’ve talked to hundreds of women about the qualities they find most attractive in men, and a sense of humor is usually the first quality they mention.

But are women being phony when they say this?

Are they giving this answer because they don’t want to appear shallow-when what they really want is a tall, muscular hunk with a ton of cash?

If the ability to make a woman laugh was such a huge turn-on, then wouldn’t stand-up comedians get laid more than rock stars?

We all know guys with a “class clown” personality who are constantly saying hilarious things, and they’re usually the LAST guys to hook up. Women find them amusing, but don’t feel any sexual attraction.

Here’s the truth.

When women say they love a sense of humor, what they really mean is they love the deeper ATTITUDE that a sense of humor points to.

Guys who are funny, playful and nonchalant around women – and even better, can bust on women and tease them a little – are obviously confident and in control of their reality.
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Opening Lines To Use When Approaching Asian Women

When starting conversations with girls, think in terms of Opener + Transition. This is the key to engaging women in good conversations. The two don’t need to be related at all. For example, I can Open a girl by asking her a question about her cell phone — but as soon as she answers, I can Transition onto another topic that is going to get her to share information about herself. (I don’t want to stand there for ten minutes making small-talk about her phone; I want to get to know her!)

You should never need to rely on cliche or obvious openers like “Do you have the time?” or “Hi, how are you?”

Model Queenie Also, never ask women permission to talk to them. Don’t say things like, “Excuse me, do you mind if I ask you something?” Or, “Pardon me, can I talk to you for a minute?”

This will only cause a woman to go into ‘defensive’ mode; her brain will come up with reasons not to engage in an interaction with you. It’s a built-in defense mechanism.

You’re some random guy and your intentions are unclear. She’s thinking, if she does allow you to talk to her, what’s going to happen next? Are you going to hit on her? Are you going to try to trap her in some boring conversation that she’ll need to escape from? Are you going to try to sell her something? What’s the deal here?

The point is, you never want to give her the opportunity to ‘disqualify’ you and blow you off. Jump right in with an effective Opener and follow with an effective Transition, and you’ll both be smiling and talking to each other without ever giving her ‘defense mechanisms’ a chance to kick in.

Just use common sense with these Openers. Obviously, a Japanese woman briskly walking down a crowded street in Tokyo is not going to want to stop and give you language lessons. And, keep in mind that Asian women in public places are self-conscious about other people watching them.

You should try to approach them in isolated areas where there aren’t a lot of other people around. For example, if you’re at an Asian supermarket or at a bookstore, approach the girl when she is browsing by herself. Don’t try to approach when she’s in the check-out line.

A NOTE ON BODY LANGUAGE: Your body language is as important as what you say. Show ‘open’ body language: stand tall, keep your chin up, and look relaxed. Get your hands out of your pockets! If you look awkward and uncomfortable, you’ll make her feel the same way.

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The Most Effective Way To Pick Up A Woman

Here’s the mindset you should have if you really want to be successful when it comes to dating and meeting women:

Firstly, take all the things that your mom & dad ever taught you about how to treat and date a woman and do the exact OPPOSITE!

It’s not a secret anymore that even though a woman constantly says that all she wants is a nice, sweet, and caring guy in their life, often times they’re actually lying to themselves — without them even realizing it!

It’s true!

Seriously.

In the movies, yes, the girl always falls for the nice guy, but in real life, especially more so if you really want to be able be with as many women as possible in your lifetime – the nice guy route will get you nowhere and you’ll end up getting nothing but rejections.

I’m not going to go into the details on the ‘why’ part of it because most of you might have already know about it.
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